Threesome, With friends? Or Stranger?

I am sitting in the living room and watching Friends. Joey and Monica are having dinner with Joey’s ex-girlfriend and her current boyfriend. They are planning to break them up and keep one part for each of themselves. I was thinking, if they are not looking for serious relationship, how about they just have a foursome together. However, Joey and Monica are friends. Maybe one person shouldn’t have sex with friends, which brings me an idea: Is it okay if I ask my friend for a threesome?

Some people would think that having couples dating with friends is actually better than with some stranger. There are lots of people get sexually transmitted diseases (STD) from having sex with strangers, which is called one-night-stand, or promiscuity. It is true that having threesome with friends are safe for the sake of health. At least, the chances are low that our friends don’t care our health and have sex with us regardless of her/his diseases. Besides, there are lots of examples of people getting robbed or even violated by stranger after they are about to go to bed together. Quite a number of these cases happen every year. What is more, the familiarity and mental bond between friends are stronger than that of stranger. Maybe the experience will be a lot more comfortable when with friends. Also, when you are having threesome dating with your friends, you can be more open and relaxed.

However, some people don’t agree. They choose to find a threesome partner from dating apps. They can’t even imagine have threesome with their friends. They are afraid that if they do, their friendship may change and become impure. Your relationship will become complicated. You are both friend and also sex partner. In the meantime, having threesome with friends is awkward. Some people even feel that it is possible that your partner would cheat on you with your friends, because they get to meet so many times after threesome. It is believed love will grow in time. You are risking to lose your friend and your partner. If you choose to have threesome with a stranger, there will be no such risks. You probably only get to see each other for one time. After that, you may never meet him/her again. It is safer for the sake of your relationship with your partner. Besides, the idea of one-night-stand may enable you to behave more freely and boldly. You are more willing to express your desire and preference. You may get to have a better time than with friends.

After so much said, are you determined who you are going to invite to threesome?